Romance scam warning signs

How romance scammers operate

Scammers create fake profiles — usually attractive, successful people — and patiently build emotional relationships over weeks or months. The goal is always financial.

Psychological tactics used

• Love bombing: Overwhelming attention, compliments, and affection
• Manufactured intimacy: Sharing personal stories to create false connection
• Isolation: Encouraging you to keep the relationship private
• Crisis creation: A sudden emergency only money can solve

Common cover stories

• Military officer deployed abroad
• Doctor or engineer with an NGO overseas
• Widowed with a child
• "Cannot video call due to poor internet or work restrictions"

Warning signs checklist

• Profile photos are stock images (reverse image search)
• Falls in love within days
• Always has an excuse not to meet or video call
• Stories inconsistent over time
• First money request is small — to build confidence